Don't You Have Any Manners?

FELLA'S! This is a shout out to you. This past Friday I was out at Tubby's, having a fine time, when all of a sudden I felt someone grab my butt. When I turned around and confronted them, the group standing behind me acted like they had no idea what just happened.

The fact that no one wanted to "man" up to the act, just upset me even more. Since no one wanted to man up, I pushed the guy directly behind me out of anger.

I get so upset when guys do this. They feel like somehow it’s ok to grab female’s butts at bars. Well it’s NOT, and it happens all the time. Myself personally have reprimanded five guys this school year alone.

I don’t care if it’s a pat, a tap or a grab it’s all the same. It’s

all disrespectful and technically it’s assault. So ladies, if you would like, next time a male grabs your ass you can call the cops, on his ass!

Now, he will most likely disappear before they get there, so I recommend taking care of the situation your self. You can do this in a variety of ways. Please note these are just suggestion that I have gathered from girlfriends I am not personally endorsing any of them because I am a non-violent person and a follower of Dr. Kings teachings.

However, if you choose to use one of these suggestions I am told they have a 100% efficiency rate that, that man will never touch your butt again and will take a second to think before he decides to grab another female’s butt in the future.

The methods I have gathered from my research to stop this despicable behavior, in no particular order are as follows:

1. Slap him across the face

2. Throw your drink in his face

3. Punch him in the face

4. Grab him by his neck and choke him

5. Send your boyfriend or nearest large male friend over to him to teach him some manners!

Ok Ladies, and if you are a lady, then this does not apply to you, but if you are simply a female without any class, and are in need of class, then this is for you. Warm weather is fast approaching and that means people will be wearing less clothing. This does not mean, however that one should walk around half or more than half-naked. It is not all right, it is not cute, it is not sexy! It is however, sleazy, cheap and easy looking. I am not saying that you are in fact a tramp only that you appear to be one when you dress this way.

Just this past weekend, (when it was still cold out) I saw a girl at the bar wearing a T-shirt as a dress. And because it was so short and the fact that she was dancing on a pole at the Attic I knew she was wearing a black thong to go with her T-shirt as a dress look. Now, as a lover of fashion I can appreciate the fact that her black thong complimented the black writing on her T-shirt, but not the fact that I knew that. I do not want to see anyone’s undergarments at the bar and neither do men looking for a potential girlfriend.

The moral of this post is if you are a female seeking a mate or male companion which will last more than one night have some class and cover your ass. Well, actually cover more than your ass. Men like mystery and your cooch hanging out that leaves practically nothing to the imagination. I’m not saying you have to dress in a burka when you go out. Use the 50% rule. If your going to wear tight shorts, wear a top that covers your chest and arms or if you wear a dress that exposes your cleavage, then make sure the bottom is long and flowing. Like a maxim dress.

Stay classy BG!

Being Gay in BG

So being that BG is a college town, many feel that it is very liberal, I disagree. Just this weekend I was walking home from the bars, when I witnessed a verbal altercation between two people in front of the Circle K on Wooster. The argument was between an older man who was about seventy and a younger college aged female. I’m assuming the man was a townie, because I don’t know many people his age who travel to BG to go out on a Friday night. Although I don’t remember the specifics of the conversation (for various reasons), I do remember that it was basically about how this female was a lesbian and how the old man did not like that, so he was saying some not so nice things. The girl was extremely upset by his words and began to run after the man shouting and almost crying. As she ran toward the man I stopped her and said “hey don’t worry about it he’s ignorant, it’s not worth it”. She agreed that he was ignorant, but continued to shout at him.

The moral of the story is that BG is full of intolerant, ignorant people when it comes to the matter of gays and it’s really unfortunate. My story from this weekend is just one example of this. Now I don’t know about other college town’s nightlife, but BG doesn’t have a strictly gay bar. Not strictly in the sense that you must be gay to enter, but in the sense that it serves the gay community and it’s interest.

The fact that BG doesn’t have a gay bar made me begin to think, why not? I don’t think the answer is because there isn’t a big enough customer base for it. In fact as a student at BG, with gay friends I know that’s not the reason. Every year the University enrolls thousands of young adults I’m certain that the gay men and women included in that number alone could support a gay bar. To add to that number of potential customers are the people in town and in the surrounding areas. In addition to that number is the number of straight people, well at least females who would come too.

So, then if it isn’t the problem of lack of want/need, what is it? I think it’s the city. Maybe I’m wrong, but I can’t think of any other reason, but the city is too intolerant of gays. The old yelling man is a prime example.

Now, I have not forgotten that BG does have gay NIGHT at uptown every Tuesday. However one night a week is very different from a bar devoted to the gay scene. Since I talked about the townies having a problem with it I must also mention the conservative students from small towns much like Bowling Green who attend BGSU. They could also be apart of the reason we don’t have a gay bar, but I feel there are far too many more students from larger cities or who are simply less ignorant that would out way the ignorant few.
So, here is my message Bowling Green, as my friend Justin likes to say GROW UP, stop being ignorant and open a gay bar!

WALE

That's right Wale is comming to BG! DC's own will be performing at the Clazel on April 10th. Tickets are not yet for sale, but i wanted to give everyone the heads up. I'll have a new post as more information is available.

For those of you who love to listen to Wale, how would you feel about performing with him? Or if you just want to get recognized, here is your chance. The Clazel is looking for people to share the stage with Wale. So if you rap, sing whatever and think that you have what it takes come out and audition. Auditions are March 30 and the 31st. It cost $15 to register, but who knows how much money this could bring in? The flier below has more information if your interested.



BG this is going to be a sold out concert. Wale is about to blow up and the fact that he is coming to our city is amzing, so big ups to the promoters who got him here. Wale is comming to Bowling Green. Not Detroit, not Toledo, but BG. So come out and show some love. And if you have never heard of him or his music you definitely need to come out!

FIGHT NIGHT

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Why do people feel the need to fight when they go out. I don't know if it's the warm weather or what, but lately, it seems as if, more fights have been breaking out at bars in BG. Just this past Saturday one of my friends got into a fight in the bathroom. He was in the bathroom at Kamikazes, when he noticed one of the guys who had just used the bathroom didn't wash his hands. (Which is sooooooo disgusting) So he said, "dude your not going to wash your hands that's gross" The guy was like, "oh, you want me to wash my hands, just for you I'll wash my hands." The next thing you know my friend turns to leave and the "dirty boy's " friend says, I'll wash your hands with my balls. My friend, we will call him, James turns around to look at who said that and gets punched in the mouth, which knocks him to the ground. Now James is a buff dude so if he got knocked out that's a good punch.

I just don't understand how a fistfight can break out because of hygiene. I mean it just doesn't make sense to me. I just sick of a few people who can’t handle their alcohol ruining a fun night for everyone. I mean I guess it could always be worse. For example in Toledo when there are fights you have to worry about getting shot if a fight breaks out. Now, I’m from Toledo so I have love for the city, but please leave you guns at home too. No one wants to worry about getting shot at or punched in the mouth for asking someone to wash his or her hands. The point of going out is to have fun, NOT get angry!



So this is a shout out to all those who like to punch people when they get drunk,

Please do not go out in BG.

Thanks, xoxo

Party Girl

Meandering Down Main

Here is a little look at Bowling Green's nightlife. A taste if you will of what BG has to offer, enjoy!

Want to hear live music?

If you love music, Howards located on Main Street is the place to go. They have live performances every Wednesday through Saturday. The music starts at eight and goes until almost three in the morning. Howards features all types of genes and offers local, regional and national sounds.

When you attend Howards you can hear anything from a local rapper to the newest funk band. It is a great place to find music and sounds to add to your collection. Or if you have a music group, Howards is a great place to share your sound and gain fans.

The small stage and crowd area create a very intimate and personal feeling. You can either dance in the crowd or sit at the bar and enjoy the sounds.

Howards offers a nice alternative to the usual night club scene. For a complete list of events you can click on Howards and view the schedule.